I've been accused of being an obsessive stalker on multiple occasions, but isn't that just someone who knows what they want and determined to get it? Some would call that passionate and goal-oriented. And having goals is good.
I'm beginning to think that being young, gay, responsible, and determined is rare. I recently read a semi-related article about 'Young Daddies' that piqued my interest (Instinct no. 77, "Who’s The Daddy?"); I'll write about it when I get the time.
In anycase, I don't think being a stalker is that bad. It's only when you get all stabby, shooty, or I-wanna-replace-you-eg-SWF that it's out of hand. But who hasn't dreamed of being Bridget Fonda at one time? Wait.. maybe I'm thinking Jane Fonda.